My dad was a man of quiet strength and unwavering integrity. And when he was in the best of moods, he was the life of the party – lighting up the room with his charm, energy, and deep love for others. He believed in hard work, in honesty, and in doing the right thing –; especially when it was difficult.

He taught me countless lessons: how to be a decent man, how to take responsibility, how to avoid excuses, how to care for family, and how to care for those around us. He lived with a strong sense of community and treated everyone with the same love and respect he gave his own family.

One of our running jokes was his nickname for me – “no shaking.” He used it because he believed that difficult situations make us stronger. Whenever he asked me a tough question or gave me a challenge, I’d respond with “no shaking,” meaning I was ready to take it on.

It became a bond between us – father and son – rooted in resilience, trust, and love.

Though I feel the weight of my father’s loss, I’m consoled by the fact that he will always remain in our hearts and thoughts. I carry with me his lessons, the image of his unique smile, and his ability to scold and love at the same time – qualities that have helped shape who I am today as a man, a father, and a husband.

I will always miss my dad. He was a great man.

When I think of my dad, I think of love, laughter, discipline, and plenty of memories that only someone who grew up in Warri, Delta State, can fully understand. Dad was funny in his own way. Sometimes he said things so sharply, you weren’t sure if you were supposed to laugh or just behave –; but most times, we did both. He was strict, yes, but deep down he was soft-hearted.

He used to call me his “last card” – his last born – and I wore that name like a badge of honor. That was our special bond, and it made me feel like no matter how grown I got, I would always be his baby. To my husband, Dad wasn’t just a father-in-law – he became a true father. And to our children, he was the best grandad.

Dad, we will miss your humor, your wisdom, your sacrifices, and your unwavering love. Rest well, Dad and Grandad. Your “last card” and the whole family love you deeply.